Live an awe-inspired life.

Discover vibrant joy, passion, and connection with Dr. Dan Thomsen.

The Power of Connection

What would it be like to feel more love, trust, respect, and support from those around you and those you love?

Would you take more risks, move boldly, and feel more alive?

Lead a life you never thought possible?

The most empowering force that can propel you forward or hold you back is being seen, heard, known, understood, and even held by those around you.

Connection is the heart of life. 

It’s the crucial difference between:

  • Arguing with your partner about the same issues over and over again or deepening your bond with greater intimacy, friendship, and adventure for a lifetime.
  • Managing your children's tantrums or raising them to be happy, resilient, and confident adults.
  • Feeling anxious and isolated at work or being part of a team that prospers together inside and outside the office

Connection determines the trajectory of our lives.

Every area of connection is like a "nest" surrounding us with everything we need to take flight. We live, work, and play in these "nests" daily, at home, in business, our community, and even within ourselves.  The connections we build help us thrive and become who we are and everything we are meant to be, or they can leave scars for generations, filling us with traumas, pain, and hurt that seem impossible to overcome.

So, what's the key to creating a nest of meaningful connections?

How can we build relationships that lead to lives of purpose, meaning, and awe-inspiring moments? 

How can we find our greatest joy in our greatest conflicts?

It's not in another book, course, or seminar. . .

It's in our experience.

We need to experience healthy, loving connections to form our own.

Dr. Dan shows us how.

About Dr. Dan

Author. Speaker. Psychologist

When it comes to matters of the heart, Dr. Dan is an unparalleled authority.

As a psychologist, speaker, and author with a practice spanning over thirty years, Dr. Dan is an expert on a mission. He is dedicated to changing the world one individual, couple, and family at a time, believing that the quality of our connections determines the quality—and trajectory of our lives.

Dr. Dan Thomsen earned his PhD at Southern Illinois University, specializing in childhood development and family relationships. Returning to Seattle to expand his focus on couples, Dr. Dan became an early adopter of the world-renowned Gottman Method. He became a Certified Gottman Therapist in its “second wave” in 2003. An innovator in his own right, Dr. Dan is the creator of Mindful Happy Families and Mindful Masculinity.

Dr. Dan’s enveloping warmth, accessible approach, and depth of expertise make him a leading and favored facilitator in communities nationwide. He applies the guidance he imparts in his own life, residing in the Seattle, Washington, area with his wife, Cyndi, of 40 years. Together, they have raised three children.

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Art of Masculine Presence

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DR. DAN THOMSEN APPOINTED COACH AND FACILITATOR OF THE ART OF MASCULINE PRESENCE

The Awakened School appointed Dr. Dan Thomsen as its newest Coach. The Awakened School is a progressive center that helps thousands awaken their impact and create success with unshakable certainty.

Working with those who want to elevate and improve their lives, Dr. Dan helps men and women create lasting transformation. In The Awakened School’s 18-month personal development program, Unshakeble Transformation, Dr. Dan works with those striving to master inner peace and outer purpose.

Dr. Dan also co-leads Art of Masculine Presence experience with The Awakened School’s Founder, Rachael Jayne Groover. Their combined expertise and engaging style create an invigorating platform to help conscious masculine men step into their power.

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THE JOY OF CONFLICT BY DR. DAN THOMSEN

Does the thought of confrontation make your stomach churn? Or are you spoiling for a fight? Or somewhere in between? Wherever you stand, conflict is never easy. In his latest book, Dr. Dan Thomsen shows us that conflict, far from being a source of discomfort, is a necessary catalyst for finding our greatest joy.

With gravitas and unvarnished honesty, Dr. Dan challenges everything we think and know about conflict:

  • How to do it.
  • How to survive it.
  • How can we use it to make life better instead of worse?

Part memoir, part personal guide, Dr. Dan takes us on a journey of how conflicts shaped his career, marriage, family, and closest relationships. Dr. Dan’s poignant and relatable stories and inspiring insights are as practical as they are accessible. The Joy of Conflict is a memorable story and a go-to reference for turning conflict into moments that enrich and elevate our lives.

Dr. Dan highlights his personal and clinical experiences to illustrate the many benefits of conflict. It’s become a central lesson of his lifetime. The Joy of Conflict shows us that we can fight and still be loved—in new and profound ways we’ve yet to experience or imagine.

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Dr. Dan is the perfect person to help someone create an awe-inspired life. He has extensive expertise in many areas while also being warm and approachable. He sees you as a whole person with strengths as well as challenges. In the nearly 40 years I’ve known Dr. Dan, he has helped hundreds of people improve their connections to the important people in their lives, including their connection to themselves.”

Suzanne Engelberg, PhD, Licensed Pychologist